Authentic Confidence Coaching
How would life look and feel different if you fully trusted yourself? How would your inner voice lift you higher?
Turn down the inner critic. Step into the confidence you deserve through tailored journal prompts and 1-on-1 coaching.
Are You Tired of Second Guessing and Criticizing Yourself? Let’s Talk.
Take the first step toward authentic confidence with a free 30-minute discovery call. We’ll explore what’s keeping you stuck in people-pleasing patterns and outline how personalized coaching can help you finally start living life on your terms. No pressure, no obligations—just an honest conversation about where you are and where you want to be.
Does This Sound Familiar?
These moments aren’t just uncomfortable – they’re holding you back from living authentically.
- You’re F’ing tired of the voice inside your head that criticizes everything you do or say and you constantly second-guess, „Did I make the right choice?„
- You dress yourself to match how you want others to see you, rather than what looks and feels good to you
- You apologize excessively for having needs or setting basic boundaries
- You pretend to enjoy social events when you’d rather be home, just to avoid disappointing others, then feel resentful watching your free time slip away
- You let family members make major life decisions for you because „they know best”
- You stay silent when someone disrespects or takes advantage of you
- You keep your dreams secret because you’re afraid others will call them unrealistic
- You say „yes” to extra work while your own projects gather dust then wallow in quiet self-pity or frustration
I’ve been there too and knowing what I know now, I know it’s not because you’re worth less but because you don’t know your own value. If you’re like me, no one taught us how to value ourselves, instead we are told to silence our inner compass and look outside for guidance. But the truth is, your voice, vision, and sense of direction are still safe inside you. When you reconnect with your core values—the things that truly matter to you—they become your anchor, guiding every decision with clarity and confidence.
The Transformation You Can Expect
Discover who you truly are and what you stand for. Here’s what authentic confidence looks like:
- Making decisions swiftly because you know yourself and your values
- Speaking your mind in groups without rehearsing every word in your head first
- Choosing partners and friends based on genuine connection, not others’ approval
- Setting boundaries without guilt or over-explaining yourself
- Expressing your needs in relationships as naturally as breathing
- Pursuing your passions openly, regardless of others’ opinions
- Disagreeing respectfully while staying true to your values
- Planning your future based on your desires, not family expectations
- Walking away from situations that don’t serve you without second-guessing
- Living authentically and inspiring others to do the same
Through this journey, you’ll discern the various voices in your head and reconnect with your own authentic voice, hearing it over the others and letting it guide you from uncertainty into confidence, from doubt into clarity.
The Honest Truth About Your Journey Ahead
Walking the path of authentic confidence means embracing change that others might not understand. Here’s what you need to know:
- Prepare for Pushback: When you stop automatically saying „yes” to every request or begin expressing your genuine opinions in group chats, some people will resist. Your sister might question why you’re „suddenly being difficult” when you decline another family obligation. Your long-time friends might label you as „changed” when you start choosing different weekend activities.
- Relationships Will Shift: That friend who always chooses the restaurant? They might struggle when you start suggesting alternatives. Your partner who’s used to making all the decisions might feel threatened when you voice your preferences. Some relationships built on your people-pleasing patterns may naturally fade.
- Temporary Solitude: There will be moments when standing up for your values feels isolating. Like when you’re the only one who speaks up about uncomfortable jokes in your friend group, or when you choose to pursue your passion project instead of following the „safe” career path your parents mapped out.
- Old Patterns Die Hard: Expect resistance when you stop being the „reliable one” who drops everything to help others, or the „easy-going friend” who never expresses needs. Some people might try to guilt you back into your former role, saying things like „you used to be more fun” or „why are you making things complicated?”
Remember: This discomfort isn’t a sign you’re doing something wrong—it’s evidence you’re finally doing something right.
Is This Coaching Right For You?
This transformational journey isn’t for everyone. Be honest with yourself – this coaching isn’t for you if:
- You’re looking for quick fixes or want someone else to solve your problems
- You can’t commit to 15-20 minutes of journaling several times a week
- You’re not ready to face uncomfortable truths about your relationships
- You expect change without challenging your current patterns
This coaching IS for you if:
- You’re willing to feel temporary discomfort for long-term authentic growth
- You can commit to regular self-reflection through guided journaling between sessions
- You understand that lasting change requires consistent effort and accept that only you are responsible for your situation
Remember: This journey requires your active participation. If you’re not ready to invest time in self-discovery, this might not be the right time for this work.
Authentic Confidence Packages
Signature Journey | 6 Sessions | $450
- Six 60-90 minute 1:1 coaching sessions via Zoom or in person
- Personalized journal prompts between sessions
- 21-day self-discovery prompts & core values workbook
- Inner-child healing exercises
- Post-session action steps and reflection guides
- Voice/text support between sessions
- Flexible scheduling within 3 months
Deep Dive | Single Session | $90
- One 90-minute intensive coaching session
- Focused problem-solving for a specific challenge
- Custom journaling prompts for continued reflection
- Clear action steps to implement immediately
- Follow-up email support for 7 days
How It Works
- Identify: What is it that you want?
- Clarify specific desire
- Distinguish between surface-level want and deeper need
- Ensure desire is self-driven, not externally imposed
- Why, Why, Why: Explore root motivation
- First response: Initial reason
- Subsequent layers: Drill deeper
- Final layer: Uncover fundamental core motivation
- Example path: „I want a promotion” → „For more money” → „For security” → „To feel valued” → „To prove my worth”
- Assess: Current landscape. What are my…
- Personal strengths
- Existing skillo relevant to goal
- Internal barriers (beliefs, fears)
- External obstacles
- Support systems and resources
- Potential skill gaps
- Transformation Techniques
- Inner child healing
- Pattern recognition
- Belief system mapping
- Perspective reframing
- NLP language pattern interventions
- Visualization exercises
- Between-Session Growth
- Tailored journaling prompts
- Values discovery worksheet
- Limiting belief identification
- Personal narrative reconstruction
- Reflection and integration practices
- Self-coaching journaling exercise
- Continuous Support
- WhatsApp voice message support
- Optional email check-ins
- Custom journaling prompts each session
- NLP reframing technique handouts
About Marius: From Cafeteria Outcast to Confidence Coach
Picture this: A kid sitting alone in the school cafeteria, meticulously arranging his peas because, hey, at least they wouldn’t reject him. That was me – not the new kid, but literally known as „the kid with no friends.”
My grades were as low as my self-worth, and my greatest talent was becoming invisible during group projects. I mastered the art of silent lunches and perfected the „I meant to eat alone” face. Turns out, when you value yourself at zero, the universe has a funny way of matching that price tag.
Those years of quality time with my cafeteria peas taught me something invaluable. Rock bottom makes an excellent foundation for rebuilding. I discovered that finding your voice is less about speaking louder and more about finally believing you have something worth saying.
Fast forward through a journey of self-discovery, I’ve traveled the world, found my voice, and figured out my values. Now, instead of arranging peas, I help others arrange their lives in ways that actually make sense to them. Ironic, isn’t it? The kid who couldn’t even speak up to choose a lunch table now coaches others to find their authentic voice. I’m a certified Coach and NLP Practitioner.
My mission? To help you skip some of the hardest parts of this journey and fast-track to the part where you actually enjoy being you.
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Discover the joy of reconnecting with your authentic self.
This printable workbook is your personal guide to:
- Taking small, intentional steps toward a more aligned life.
- Reflecting on what truly matters to you.
- Gaining clarity about your inner world.
These 8 days of prompts are designed to spark insight, encourage self-expression, and help you uncover your unique path through nature-inspired visual metaphors.